Becoming is a Journey, Not a Destination

There is something sacred about the in-between. The space where you are no longer who you were, but not yet fully walking in who you are becoming. That is where I have been lately, unpacking, unlearning, and unfolding.

I thought I was becoming her again. But now I know I am becoming

healed.

Because even in the quiet, God has been loud.

Real Talk

If I am being honest, life has been lifing. From unexpected health challenges to taking medical leave to honoring my body’s need to slow down, rest has not been optional. It has been required. And while rest always sounded good in theory, it is another thing entirely when it is forced.

Still, I am learning to see this pause not as a setback, but as preparation.

This year has tested my faith, but it has also re-centered it. I have been praying more, surrendering more, and letting go of my timeline to trust His. In doing that, I found clarity. I tapped back into the woman I have always been, but in a more intentional and aligned way.

I am a mom. A businesswoman. A creator. A dreamer. A child of God. And now, more than ever, a woman who refuses to pour from an empty cup. I am choosing softness and strategy at the same time, showing up fully for the life I am creating, while letting grace carry me through the days I feel like I am barely holding it together.

What I Have Learned

This season has reminded me:

• Rest is not weakness

• Being still does not mean you are stuck

• Becoming is not about going back. It is about going deeper

Healing has looked like early mornings with God, honest conversations with myself, releasing timelines I created, realigning my business with my soul, and permitting myself to change. It has been quiet and tender, yet deep and stretching.

I am not returning to an older version of myself. I am stepping into the version God always intended.

The New Season

Stepping into this new season has meant honoring my vision, leading with heart, and leaning into purpose even when the path feels unfamiliar. I have been relaunching with intention. My glow up is not just about what is seen. It is emotional, spiritual, and financial. And this time, I am doing it without overextending myself to prove anything.

From planning my next chapter as a travelpreneur to mentoring women who are chasing both profit and peace, I am reminded that the story is not over. It is only beginning.

So if you are in your own season of stillness, softness, or spiritual reset, know this:

You do not have to be fully healed to move forward.

You only have to believe that healing can be part of the movement.

We are not going back to who we were.

We are becoming her, but healed.

And the journey is only beginning.

✨ What part of your journey are you in right now? If this post spoke to you, share it with someone who needs the reminder, too.